I heard my wife on the phone saying, "Loathing is acceptable."
When she hung up, I got the story out of her. Turns out she was talking to a friend who’s been married for 2 years. The friend was complaining about her husband, all this stuff she couldn’t stand about him. "I hate him. Am I allowed to hate him?" That’s when my wife said "Loathing is acceptable." You go through a lot of different moods with a spouse and you shouldn’t try and push them down. If it gets past loathing to You want to kill him, or do a Lorena Bobbitt, that’s when you should leave. So spake the wife. I’m going to keep my eyes open.
