The journey from ‘birthright’ to Palestine

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This piece is adapted from a spoken word poem about my experience as a Jewish-American visiting Palestine with Taglit-Birthright tour, a program that grants people with Jewish heritage a free trip to Israel to “rediscover their Jewish identity.” After the trip, I had the privilege of staying with my childhood friend, Aseel, and her family in their homeland of Palestine.

My body rejected this land, this history, from the moment we stepped off the plane. My cousins had hyped this trip up so much, I half expected to touch down on a warm beach overlooking the Mediterranean, clinking glasses with a triumphant, “Mazeltov!”

Instead, I was suffocated by heavy airport questioning, watching barrels of guns sit on Israeli Defense Force soldiers’ waistbands, staring children in the face. “Don’t worry, young Jewish-Americans are not who Israeli soldiers are after,” my tour guide tells us, as if that makes it any more just.

I am told this land is my birthright.  “To be Jewish is to be Israeli,” my tour guide beams. I am told we are a tribe of refugees, a landless people finally come home. This land that Aseel’s family has been harvesting for generations, a land she cannot leave nor enter – not for hospital visits nor college classes.

Yet, I am told, I have a birthright.

Some of my fellow Taglit participants and I enjoy a float in the Dead Sea.

Some of my fellow Taglit participants and I enjoy a float in the Dead Sea.

This convoluted Zionist alibi for ethnic cleansing rang in my ear at every Israeli checkpoint, with every one-sided history lesson we received, and with every scripture they shoved at us like fast-talking real estate agents whispering in the same undertone, “You belong here, they don’t belong here, you belong here…”

It was as if for every question regarding whom this land belongs to we are reminded, “but what about the Holocaust?”

Aseel and I share a joke in front of the gates of Old Jerusalem, where many of her family members worked and once lived.

Aseel and I share a joke in front of the gates of Old Jerusalem, where many of her family members worked and once lived.

Nine days later, I am sitting in my friend Aseel’s family home in Shufat, East Jerusalem. Her cement apartment complex stands resurrected in the rubble, a resilient rock supporting its people. I hadn’t seen her or her family in five years, not since the U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement agents showed up in our shared suburbia.

I am spinning, reciting how much propaganda we received, how my gut cringed at the irony of every IDF memorial. Aseel’s mother, Fatima, nods solemnly. Her brother, Noor, jumps up, “See! They have Holocaust museums and memorials at every corner, yet we are the victims of a modern day Holocaust!  Where are the Palestinian memorials? Where do our tears go? Where are our bodies buried?”

Fatima and Kayla Blau look over Jerusalem on top of the Mount of Olives.  When Fatima was a child, her family used to celebrate weddings and birthdays at the hotel on top of Mount of Olives, and the area was primarily a Palestinian settlement. The hotel is now under Israeli ownership, and the face of the mountain is now an Israeli Defense Forces (IDF) memorial site.

Fatima and I look over Jerusalem on top of the Mount of Olives. When Fatima was a child, her family used to celebrate weddings and birthdays at the hotel on top of Mount of Olives, and the area was primarily a Palestinian settlement. The hotel is now under Israeli ownership, and the face of the mountain is now an Israeli Defense Forces (IDF) memorial site.

Noor’s question lingers like the stunned silence after the car bomb that night, definite and deflating.  In the wake of hate crimes, Palestinians held hostage by the occupation, and unwarranted jailing, Aseel’s uncle sits with his five year old child and prays.  He is forced to explain to his child why his brother was killed by Israeli soldiers at the same time my rabbi explains Jews must stay righteously committed to Israel.

Israel, my Jewish brothers and sisters, we cannot heal through hurting. We cannot heal building homes on Palestinian bones, breaking backs and promises. The deep-rooted history between Palestinians and Jews may be tangled and twisted below the olive trees, distorted with peace settlement lies and colonization realities. Yet some of us are here to stand together against apartheid, against walls, divisions, and identification cards.

Let us rewrite history like truth this time.

Back in Aseel’s living room, Fatima’s olive eyes gaze up at me:

“That wall,” she trembles, “is one wall and two prisons. The Israelis live in fear, and we Palestinians live in fear – fear of the other. I pray every time Aseel, Noor, and Amir walk outside and I don’t stop until my babies are home.  But I have hope. One day, peace will be brought upon this land once again. What do your people say? Shalom? Peace? One day…” she laments, bowing her head in prayer.

Inshallah, God Willing, I do the same.

Since my visit to Palestine, I have grappled with the harsh realities of what has been done to Palestinians in the name of an expansionist Israel. As Fatima and I continue to pray for peace, I urge all Jews to remain critical of Israel’s history, present, and future.

About Kayla Blau

Kayla Blau is a Pacific Northwest native and currently lives in Seattle. She is a spoken word artist, social worker, and organizer advocating for juvenile justice alternatives.

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10 Responses

  1. bintbiba
    March 19, 2015, 1:31 pm

    Thank you Kayla , for your touching and candid words.
    You do write beautifully!

    Peace HAS to come some day . But first there has to be Justice for there to be a true and lasting peace.

    • just
      March 19, 2015, 2:40 pm

      ditto, bintbiba.

      Kayla, as a spoken word artist, you have done a magnificent job here of adapting to the written word.

      I hope that you will continue to tell Fatima’s, Aseel’s, Noor’s and your story.

      These stories will make the BIG difference one day. Yours made a difference in my life today~ it gives me hope. They are part of the tale of woe, suffering, and the ongoing Nakba. Testimonials like yours will be the collective from which many will go to justify and certify justice, freedom, respect, and amends for Palestinians and Palestine that must and will come, Inshallah.

      (I am excited to have “met” you, a “spoken word artist”! I have often worried that it may become a forgotten art in the “west”…..)

  2. Citizen
    March 19, 2015, 6:24 pm

    Too bad not one in a million Americans will read this little story.

    • Annie Robbins
      March 19, 2015, 6:48 pm

      that’s not true citizen, we get way more traffic that that. it surpassed that many viewings a couple hours ago and the day is still young. by the end of the week it will surely get a few thousand hits – at least.

      • Sam905
        March 20, 2015, 10:56 am

        Very True Annie. Beautiful words like this will always find a way to spread, and we must do our part to share these words with others.

    • RockyMissouri
      March 20, 2015, 10:30 am

      I am reading it. And it touches my heart, again and again.

    • Kris
      March 23, 2015, 2:18 pm

      Don’t underestimate the power of social media! This is a wonderful article, and should be shared widely.

  3. Bornajoo
    March 19, 2015, 7:36 pm

    “Peace HAS to come some day . But first there has to be Justice for there to be a true and lasting peace.”

    Absolutely Bintbiba!

    Thank you Kayla for this beautifully written article. As Just says it gives us hope! You saw right through the flimsy hasbara. I hope as many people as possible hear your story

    I hope we can hear more from you

  4. mariapalestina
    March 20, 2015, 10:45 am

    And read by many of my 4000 Facebook friends too. And shared on Twitter. Thank you Kayla. Enlightened young Jews like you give me hope.

    • Annie Robbins
      March 20, 2015, 11:43 am

      i agree maria, it’s an incredible article. .. the energy and love is just beautiful.

      we cannot heal through hurting….Let us rewrite history like truth this time….

      One day, peace will be brought upon this land once again.

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