Thank you for your detailed and lengthy response.
I see that you agree with me that the ultimate result of BDS will be the destruction of Israel as a Jewish state. No wonder most Israeli Jews support measures that will hinder BDS and ensure its failure, inshalla. Many Palestinians object to the judaization of Jerusalem. It is only natural that many Jews will object the arabization of Israel.
As for the seven million refugees, they won’t be “returning” to Israel since, except for some elderly Palestinians, very few of them ever lived in Israel/Palestine to begin with. Instead of relocating them to Israel and causing enormous social turmoil (very probably turning Israel into a failed state similar to Lebanon, Syria and Iraq), A far more reasonable and moral plan will have them remain where they are (what’s the problem in living in the east or west bank?) or help them move to other parts of the world just as millions of Africans and middle easterns are doing now days.
Perhaps you and annie are right that “Most Palestinians regard the goal of a Zionist state as deeply offensive”. But I am not a Palestinian. I am an Israeli.
Nevertheless I believe that Israelis and Palestinians can reach a pragmatic solution based on realistic expectations. Unfortunately the BDS movement is not headed in that direction.