Eljay, do you realize that a woman is raped every second, and that your rape-in-the-cellar obsession is rare in the EXTREME, and nothing more than that: It may be your personal fantasy, but if I denounce that as not representative of what women really have to deal with, I am being realistic. That is the opposite of belittling what rape is. I think you owe me an apology. Show you are an adult, and just say it. It would do you some good.