Opinion

Manhood, and humiliation, in Gaza

Emily Ratner is just back from Gaza, and struggling like me to come to terms emotionally/intellectually/spiritually/Jewishly/humanly with what she saw there. She has a superb piece here about going down into the tunnels (I was too chickenshit myself) and reflections on Palestinian manhood. She says that Dr. Eyad Sarraj of the Gaza Community Mental Health Program speaks of 

a growing trend he’s seen in young Palestinians: As parents, especially fathers, are humiliated, beaten, arrested, and otherwise disempowered in front of their children by Israeli soldiers, they lose their status as protectors in their children’s eyes. Desperate for signs of strength in terrifyingly unstable and dangerous times, young Palestinians find a new role model: the Israeli soldier.

Dr. Sarraj finds the origin of this trend in the Nakba (catastrophe) of 1948, when Israelis began ethnically cleansing Palestinians from their land. Since 1948, the trauma of losing agency over one’s life and living conditions has become, in the words of Dr. Sarraj, “a part of the Palestinian psyche.” This trauma, which has grown with every violent incursion into Palestinian communities, strongly intensified with the first Intifada in 1987, when Israeli soldiers mercilessly beat children armed only with rocks, and also beat and arrested their parents. The psychiatrist notes that many of these children grew up to embrace more violent weapons in the second Intifada in 2000, a response to the brutal abuse and humiliation they’d witnessed. More than 45% of Palestinian children have watched Israeli soldiers beat and/or arrest their fathers, and the trend Dr. Sarraj describes has grown exponentially since the December/January massacre. Since the attacks, more than 75% of the youth of Gaza do not believe their parents can protect them from Israeli soldiers. Surrounded by the rubble of schools, hospitals, and whole neighborhoods, and with virtually no hope of employment upon graduation (the siege-induced unemployment rate is 80%), it is hard for the youth of Gaza to envision much of a future. And it is virtually impossible for their parents, highly educated but lacking agency and employment, to give them hope.

I heard a psychologist who works with Sarraj, Hasan Zeyada, make a similar point. And I sensed it at every hand in the humiliation I saw. Gazans have been stripped of dignity. When anyone starts lecturing you about Hamas being sexist (and believe me, radical Islam is sexist), the chief answer is the utter humiliation of Palestinian men by an occupying force. 10,000 or so of those men are in prison. I don't think you can blame a society that has been so humiliated in these ways for seeking to compensate. And yes, the Holocaust is part of this. The utter humiliation of Jews, now projected.
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