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One story behind the suicides taking place in Gaza

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The Palestine News Network announced this week that the suicide rate in the Occupied Territories jumped 68.4 percent last year. In Gaza, Al-Shifa Hospital, which was destroyed during last summer’s assault by Israel, said that at least one person attempted suicide every day—in a culture where taking one’s own life carries a heavy moral penalty. But those are just numbers. What are the stories behind them?

Telling such stories is the mission of We Are Not Numbers, a project that links developing English writers in Gaza with authors and teachers abroad to help them improve their language skills while educating others through their powerful narratives. One of the participating writers, Anas Jnena, wrote recently about a story behind the attempted-suicide statistics. Here is his story, bringing those numbers alive. – Pam Bailey, International Director of We Are Not Numbers.

I first met Ahmed in early 2012, in a small park in Gaza’s Shuja’ya neighborhood – a place where my friends and I usually meet whenever there is a power cut in our neighborhood. The night air was dry and cool and I was waiting for my friends to arrive. On that particular day, however, they were late. Being the person I am, I patiently waited for them. I found a medium-sized rock with a flat surface at the corner of the park and decided to sit while I lost myself in a sea of thoughts. I was planning a prank to scare one of my best friends, Hamza.

In the still darkness, I was sure nobody would ever notice me. I saw someone approaching and immediately thought of Hamza. I could already feel the excitement deep in the pit of my stomach as I imagined his face when I pulled my prank on him. But much to my surprise, I saw Ahmed instead.

That was our first meeting. He said hello to me; I returned his greeting. He looked calm and experienced, even though he clearly was not the educated type. His features were not what you would call attractive, but there was something about his face that captured my attention. I loved the way he smiled; it was sort of crooked, his black eyes got small and his lips curved inward as if he was sucking on a lemon. Even today, whenever I see Ahmed smile, I know it is genuine and not forced. Since Hamza hadn’t arrived yet – though he had promised me he would be on time – I decided to take this opportunity to strike up a conversation with him. It was at that moment I got to know Ahmed, and his life story was something I did not expect.

Ahmed is the second-oldest child among 10. He dropped out of school when he was 15. His parents were struggling to keep the family from falling apart, so he decided he too should work and reduce his family’s burden. He started selling newspapers on the streets.

Unemployment is very high in Gaza; nearly 60 percent among youth. But Ahmed soon was lucky enough to land a better-paying job—as a worker in the smuggling tunnels of Rafah, in the southern part of Gaza, beneath the Egyptian border. Those smuggling tunnels employed thousands of young men whose job was mainly to haul goods—including food, clothing and fuel—into the blockaded Gaza. The work was hard and dangerous; he was assigned a 12-hour shift, six days a week, in cramped spaces. Sudden tunnel collapses, electrocution and Israeli airstrikes were very possible. However, that didn’t stop Ahmed from being a diligent worker. Ahmed was extremely grateful; the pay was around 150 shekels (US$39) per day and he knew that with this job, he could ensure the ones he loved a better future.

There were some very daunting days, when Ahmed decided to spend the night at his work place due to the fact that his home was relatively far from Rafah. He often found shelter at the entrance of the tunnel, and tried his best to get the rest his body desperately needed. Though it wasn’t comfortable spending the night on the ground, far from home in a place where his life was endangered, Ahmed never minded much.

Most of his earnings were used for his family’s expenses, but instead of grumbling about not having much money for himself – as most youth our age do – Ahmed instead felt like he had accomplished something big in life since he had managed to lift some of his parents’ burden. He even gave around $2,000 to his oldest brother for his marriage. I had never encountered someone so selfless, and we became fast friends.

Early the next year (2013), Ahmed finally got engaged to the girl he loved. Perhaps God listened to his silent prayers and decided to grant them. He even brought me and some friends some sweets and invited his close friends for dinner. Seeing Ahmed happy brought light to everyone’s heart. But that event also changed Ahmed a bit. He doubled his efforts and worked twice as hard as he had before. Many of his friends didn’t see him that often anymore, since he was always too busy with work.

Later that year, the unexpected happened. Egypt’s military destroyed most of the tunnels to improve their own security, causing Ahmed and thousands of other young Gazans, to lose their humble jobs. The transition from employed to unemployed resulted in many other changes to Ahmed’s life. He started to spend most of his time in Alshuj’ya Park, becoming more pessimistic and hopeless. He delayed his wedding celebration because he couldn’t afford the expenses. Money that he earned from odd jobs was constantly used for family purposes, until he finally was completely out of cash. Day by day, his financial situation became worse.

By 2014, Ahmed’s life had completely changed. He couldn’t bring himself to visit his fiancée’s house because he felt ashamed. If he didn’t even have money to provide for his current family, how was he to support a wife and family one day? He felt as if the world had turned sinister and now was laughing at his failure.

One cold and dry night, after the power went out, Ahmed decided to put an end to his suffering. He found an electrical cable and tied it to the ceiling of his room. Ahmed got up on the chair and kicked it away.

But it did not end there.

As if on cue, his sister saw Ahmed hanging and started screaming. Her cries echoed through the house, awakening everyone. Mohammed, Ahmed’s younger brother, was on the scene in a flash—lifting him up to relieve the tension while his sister cut the cable. Ahmed was miraculously saved.

As for me, I could not suppress my confusion and doubt. So I decided to ask him directly: “Why did you do it, Ahmed?” He replied, “It’s because I couldn’t maintain my self-esteem. All doors of hope have been closed to me in Gaza. It is a suspended death to be unemployed.”

Postscript: Since then, Ahmed has survived Israel’s 50-day assault against Gaza (July 8-Aug. 26), including a massacre in his town of Shuja’ya that killed more than 65 people. He still has only occasional day work. However, Ahmed remains engaged to the love of his life. And Anas is still his friend.

If you would like to read more stories like this, the We Are Not Numbers team will be publishing a new story every day beginning July 8 and running through Aug. 26 – the first anniversary of the war. Their slogan: We are from Gaza, and we are not numbers.

About Anas Jnena

Anas Jnena, 20, is a third-year student at Al-Azhar University, where he is majoring in English literature.

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6 Responses

  1. Citizen
    Citizen on June 24, 2015, 1:30 pm

    Jeez. I can’t think of a single US congress person who would read about this life… Contact with my congress persons has been a bad joke. When they respond, it’s always cheap boilerplate, a deep insult–about anything, not just the I-P situation.

  2. just
    just on June 24, 2015, 1:36 pm

    Thank you, Anas. Give my best to Ahmed. I’m so sorry for all of the pain that Gaza endures by the cruel actions of Israel, actions that are supported by too many.

    I can barely see thru my tears, so I had to wait a bit to type. Best of luck with your studies~ you write beautifully.

    “If you would like to read more stories like this, the We Are Not Numbers team will be publishing a new story every day beginning July 8 and running through Aug. 26 – the first anniversary of the war. Their slogan: We are from Gaza, and we are not numbers.”

    Thanks for that link. Thanks to Pam Bailey & team. Thank you to the doctors and nurses @ Al- Shifa hospital, and to the outreach angels in Gaza.

  3. annie
    annie on June 24, 2015, 2:17 pm

    this is an excellent article. thanks to both of you (Anas and Pam). really looking forward to reading more ‘we are not numbers’ articles (although i dread reading about more suicides in gaza).

  4. Bornajoo
    Bornajoo on June 24, 2015, 4:39 pm

    It’s hard to even imagine such despair.

    I hope that these stories are read far and wide.

    Unfortunately I’m not surprised that the suicide rate is increasing.

    Thank you Anas and Pam

  5. Pam
    Pam on June 24, 2015, 9:58 pm

    Please come to our website often July 8-Aug. 26. Yes, the “one year later” stories are often sad. But the other theme they will be writing about is “This is Gaza too” — in other words, the side of Gaza no one writes about or sees: the food, the traditions, the sea.. etc.

    AND if any of you are published writers/authors (OR have ESL teaching experience), we’d love to have you join us as a mentor. We soon will be expanding to include Palestinian youth from Lebanon.

    • just
      just on June 24, 2015, 10:17 pm

      I’ll visit often! I’ve shared this story with several people today.

      This is such a wonderful new resource for all of us. To hear and see more of the actual stories of lives, the culture, the Sumud, the essence of Gaza and Palestinians is an incomparable gift.

      Thank you, Pam.

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